Approaching Adulthood
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Summer is usually the time for day parties, concerts, and evening bonfires. For the average college student, summer represents life-altering preparation. There are apartments to find, internships to schedule, jobs to get, scholarships to apply for, and graduations to plan. One thing I’m learning this summer –— adulthood is hard.
Coming up on my last year in college, as I’m sure other college students can relate, being an adult is a scary thought. The biggest thing we all worry about is having the right answers and being in the right mental space by the time we have to spread our wings. If you’re screaming on the inside and frantically scrambling for life after college, too... Here are three things to keep in mind:
1. Don't Rush It
All the deadlines you need to meet–for scholarships, internships, or graduation– may be fast approaching, but take your time. Don’t try to fit everything in all at once. You’ll probably give yourself a heart attack or become best friends with that tasty wine.
Give yourself reasonable deadlines! Allot two days out of the week to tackle tasks. Prioritize your tasks and finish the most important projects first! You will be able to enjoy the rest of your week (and summer) without pulling your hair out.
2. Seek Adventure
Even if you are spending your summer working, find time to explore! Go to museums, art exhibits, concerts, glamping, or a road trip! If you’re finally turning twenty-one, go out with your friends and live it up. Adventures also means exploring your future career. Go to company parties, collaborate with those in your field, pick up new jobs! Make sure you're going in the right direction. Summer is the perfect time for soul-searching! Find out what speaks to you and discover your place in life.
3. Plan Ahead
Make sure that you’re prepared for life after college by planning ahead! Start looking into future apartments, roommates, jobs, and competition. If you want to move to a different state or part of the world, plan to make the necessary changes. Start preparing for a job promotion, get on a financial plan, and network your butt off! The only way you’re going to get where you want to be in life is by planning for it. If you set a goal for yourself, you can (and will) achieve it.